Your clothing should be an extension and reflection of your self, not a mask or a decoy. There should be an emotional connection to it alongside a compatibility with your mood, needs and physicality. Knowledge of your body and what enhances it, knowledge of garment fibres and production and knowledge of the language made of these parts leads to a confidence and authenticity that is most appealing.
Those who possess pieces of quality are less likely to crave more. Take your time when making new acquisitions, as with them comes responsibility. If a garment does not feel right, it will never look right. Ask yourself if you are attractive in it? Is it wearing you? Does it fit who you are and what you do? Does it move? Is it comfortable, as this is a benchmark of civilisation? Is it for how you live, or your fantasy lifestyle? Think of the item you already own that is most similar to this object of desire. Is it a better version? Does it sit within the context of your wardrobe, or will it soon be left at the orphanage?
Isolation from production can lead to a lack of meaning. Learn what makes an item special; where its components originated, how they were produced and who arranged them. Value the craftsmanship in creating the whole. Is it made of materials that will improve with time, moulding to your body and acquiring a patina with age? We also change and improve with age. Demand that your clothes are made so they can shrink and expand as you do. Natural fibres should be stitched with natural threads to enable re-dying as stains accumulate and fashions move on. Embrace the new and recontextualise the old. We are unique and as such relate best to what is lovingly crafted rather than created.
Embrace the rights of ownership over what is yours. You have a lifetime of pieces to which there is already an emotional connection that can be deepened with the application of engaged fashion and craft practices, giving them further lives. Deskilled citizens and unthinking consumption have lead to our infantilisation, giving power to the machine that leads to the citizen’s acceptance of homogenised mediocrity. Love, appreciate and enjoy that which you already own. If it’s not fit for purpose then take action, refreshing rather than renewing and securing its place in the narrative of your life.
I wrote this to consolidate my current thinking and ethos on the matter of clothing. Hopefully, it has spoken to you.